From a Battle with My Body to a Fat-Fueled Peace
For years, my life was a battleground, and food was the weapon. What began as a teenage desire for control spiraled into an eight-year war with my body, marked by bulimia, anorexia, and a crippling obsession with ‘clean’ eating. I was running marathons, climbing the corporate ladder, and backpacking the world, all while my body was silently screaming for help. The most alarming sign? Eight years without a menstrual cycle.
I was doing everything in the name of ‘health,’ but I had never been unhealthier or further from accepting myself. Trapped in a cycle of extreme exercise, injuries, and failed hormone treatments that only led to more weight gain, I hit rock bottom. I was desperate for a change, but the path forward came from the most unexpected place: a high-fat, ketogenic lifestyle that I had been taught to fear. This is the story of how I stopped fighting my body and finally learned to nourish it, heal it, and love it from the inside out.
Ingredients
• A Recipe for a Fat-Fueled Life
• Abundant Healthy Fats: Local animal fats, coconut oil, nut butters
• Daily Dose of Self-Love: Gratitude and body acceptance
• Unmeasured Intuitive Eating: Listening to your body’s hunger and fullness cues
• Generous Portions of Patience: Healing is not a linear process
• A Pinch of Rebellion: Against diet culture and external ‘rules’
Instructions
1. My Path to Healing
2. Give yourself permission to eat fat. I embraced foods I once feared, like fatty bacon, ribs, and scoops of coconut oil. It was the first step to turning my brain back on.
3. Ditch the dogma and the devices. I stopped tracking calories, macros, and ketones, and I stopped listening to gurus who preached a one-size-fits-all, restrictive approach.
4. Shift your focus from restriction to nourishment. Instead of punishing my body with exercise and calorie deficits, I focused on healing it with nutrient-dense, high-fat foods until I was full.
5. Practice active gratitude for your body. I began to appreciate everything my body did for me, from breathing to feeling emotions, which transformed our relationship from adversarial to appreciative.
6. Create your own framework. I developed my ‘Fat Fueled’ approach, which prioritizes healing, weight stabilization, and happiness over rigid rules and restrictions.
Nutritional Information
• The Benefits of a Fat-Fueled Life
• Restored Hormonal Health: Resumption of my menstrual cycle after nine months.
• Emotional Stability: The more fat I ate, the more balanced my mood became.
• Mental Clarity: Eating adequate fat turned my brain back on, allowing for clear, deliberate decisions.
• Satiety and Hunger Control: Constant hunger disappeared, and I learned to eat until I was full without bingeing.
• Effortless Weight Stabilization: Lost 20 pounds and reduced body fat from 32% to 20% without starvation.
• Improved Physical Well-being: Hair loss stopped and sleep quality dramatically improved.
Pro Tips
• Pro-Tips for Your Journey
• Don’t fear dietary fat; use high-quality sources like coconut oil, local animal fats, and nut butters to fuel your brain and body.
• Ditch the scale and tracking apps to focus on how you feel, not what the numbers say.
• Redefine ‘healthy’ by listening to your body’s unique signals instead of following rigid external rules or gurus.
• Prioritize self-care and gratitude as essential components of your wellness journey, not just afterthoughts.
FAQ
Q: What is a fat-fueled lifestyle
A: A fat-fueled lifestyle is an approach that prioritizes healing, weight stabilization, and happiness by nourishing the body with abundant healthy fats. It encourages intuitive eating and listening to your body’s cues instead of following restrictive diet rules.
Q: Can a high-fat diet help restore hormonal health
A: Yes, in this personal story, adopting a high-fat, nourishing diet led to the resumption of a menstrual cycle after nine months, indicating a restoration of hormonal health.
Q: What are the benefits of a fat-fueled approach
A: The benefits include restored hormonal health, emotional stability, mental clarity, better satiety and hunger control, effortless weight stabilization, and improved physical well-being such as better sleep and reduced hair loss.
Q: Should I track calories or macros on this plan
A: No, a key part of this approach is to ditch tracking apps and scales. The focus is on listening to your body and how you feel, rather than on numbers, rules, or external dogma.





